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                           4.3.2  How can the Southist Family Become a Sanctuary of Life
                                  Today?

                               In the multi-religious context of India, the mission of the Christian
                        family is based on the values derived from their Christian faith. The strength
                        of  the  Indian  Christian  family  is  found  in  values  like  reverence  for  life,
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                        hospitality, respect for elders, and caring for the young.  If the Christian
                        family in India, particularly the Knānāya family, is to be a true Sanctuary of
                        Life in the contemporary context, it needs continuous renewal that touches
                        not only the hearts of individuals, but the values of the family traditions and
                        culture  and  the  structures  of  society.  The  family  customs  particular  to
                        Knānāya  community  are  an  invitation  to  a  responsibility,  a  Knānāya
                        responsibility. It is also a special expression of what the CBCI pointed out
                        as  the  positive  values  and  responsibilities  of  the  joint  family  structure  in
                        India:  “Close  family  ties,  respect  for  elders,  notable  dependence  on  the
                        eldest male member of the family, and sharing of wealth and land  are its
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                        characteristic  features”.   Those  responsibilities  are  to  be  carried  out
                        adequately  in  the  modern  society.  The  following  ideas  highlight  how  the
                        missions  or  responsibilities  of  the  family  as  a  Sanctuary  of  Life  can  be
                        carried out in the present context.


                           4.3.2.1    Transmit Life Responsibly

                               In  conformity  to  the  magisterium  of  the  Church,  the  Southist
                        tradition  emphasizes  that  children  are  to  be  born  within  marriage.  At  the
                        same time parents should take into account various other factors of family
                        and society at large in begetting their children. India’s population growth is
                        high,  and  political  and  social  awareness  highlights  the  need  to  control  it.
                        The well-known sociologists, P. D. Devanandan and M. M. Thomas, who
                        have analysed the family situation and population growth in India, express
                        this idea by saying: “We are faced with the urgent and gigantic problem of
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                        controlling  the  growth  of  India’s  population”.   Because  of  this,  various

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                          Cf. ABRAHAM M.S., BIJU, The Emerging Identity and Mission of the Christian Family
                        as  Domestic  Church  in  the  Indian  Context,  Excerpta  ex  Dissertatione  ad  Doctoratum,
                        Academica Alfonsiana, Romae, 2006, p.68.
                        75  CATHOLIC BISHOPS CONFERENCE OF INDIA, CBCI Communication to the Synod of
                        Bishops  1980  on  its  theme  “The  Role  of  the  Christian  Family  in  the  Modern  World”,
                        Ranchi, 17-25 October, 1979, in DONALD H. R. DE SOUZA (ed.), Final Statements of the
                        General Body Meetings of the Catholic Bishop Conference of India 1966-2002, New Delhi,
                        2002, p. 58.
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                           DEVANANDAN,  P.  D.  and  M.  M.,  THOMAS  (eds.),  The  Changing  Pattern  Of  The
                        Family In India, Christian Institute for the Study of Religion and Society, Bangalore, 2007,
                        p. 198.













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