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F. THEYAMMA GEORGE

The story of the Kalluvelil family , and indeed of the Pathyil clan, cannot be told without
mentioning the place of our women . The Pathyil women have always had a proud and
equal place in the evolution of the family. The men folk have been extremely loyal to,
and protective of, their women. The women have demonstrated their ability to get
things done. Perhaps among all the women in the clan, Theyamma -ne Therese, on
August 2, 1928- typifies the best and the most precious in our people. , viz. love and
loyalty to the family, and to the elders. But let us begin at thebeginning.

Theyamma was born at the beginning of Abraham’s prosperity. She too studied in St.
Margaret’s School in Kaipuzha. From a very young age, she demonstrated extraordinary
abilities in singing, dancing, and histrionics and theatre arts. Abraham secured the
services of a local music teacher - Machathil Elykutty- to teach Theyamma to play the
harmonium (akin to an organ) and learn vocal music. This was a happy decision, as
Theyamma’s music and songs became the focal point in the evening activities of the
whole family. Abraham enjoyed singing as much as (if not more than) his daughter. She
on her part loved the exposure that the music brought her. Whether in school or at public
functions organized by Abraham on behalf of the Knanasya community and other events,
Theyamma played the organ and sang, much to the appreciation of all - especially her
parents and siblings.

Theyamma’s partcipation in school activities at St. George’s was much appreciated by
the headmaster and teachers. She went on to St. Mary’s High School, Athirampuzha,
where she excelled in studies and extracurricular activities. Her talents came into full
bloom in high school. With her eldest brother as a prominent business man in
Athirampuzha, she was readily accepted by her rich peers. The sisters who ran the school
sought her help, and through her, the support of her parents. In 1946, when the school
celebrated its silver jubilee, Theyamma was a key person in its organization. She did not
mind the long walk to and from school, as she had many very good friends to accompany
her. And while at home, Abraham pressed her into literary service as his scribe and
consultant for the many articles and letters he wrote to the governments, to newspapers,
and for sundry publications. She thus came to know the inner workings of Abraham’s
mind. Of all the children, Theyamma was to keep an abiding and unfailing faith in the
greatness of her father, and in the affection of her mother.

On May 19, 1947, Theyamma was given in marriage to M.P. George Madayanakavil.
Pothan Madayanakavil was a friend of Abraham from their school years. George had
studied in Sacred Heart Mount High School, obtaining the first rank in the State in the
school final examination. From there, he went on to St. Joseph’s College, Trichy, and St.
Xavier’s college Palayamkottah. His professors were giants of their time, not only in
their chosen fields, but some also in other walks of life. Prof. Peter Reddy, who was
mentioned in an earlier chapter taught him modern history, and remembered him many
years later. George was a natural genius. He did not need to study. He had an astounding
mind that could absorb and digest the most abstruse subjects. This also engendered easy
boredom. He broke some of the rules of the Jesuit Colleges and had to pay the price for it.

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